There are answers to the questions, but first you have to discover how to ask the questions. Any questions that ask, "What is wrong with me?" or "Why am I always behind the eight ball?" All the questions that come from the 'wronging self' ...do not work. These types of questions set you up for answers that negate you. These negative questions are the set-ups that take away your power. Whether you are aware of these underlying negative patterns or not, they promote destructive behaviours and actions.
From the onset of your life, whether this lifetime or throughout your continuum, you are, in fact, a composite of Belief Systems, the B.S. Programs, which, through limited doctrines will inhibit you from expressing your Self in positive and productive ways. These limited Belief Systems may instil your unconscious and even conscious fears. These fears become encoded programming at the very cellular level of your body and being.
These instilled Beliefs become the expression of your experiences. You are like an I-Pod constantly recording information into your body. From the very minute the sperm hits the egg, when you are in your mother's womb, you are being embedded with information. Good, bad or indifferent, you are being imprinted with experiences. You experience your experiences from both your parents as well as your Self. Sometimes the view from the womb is not that great.
If your parents or family are not conscious of these limiting Belief Systems and accept life as - "This is the way life is, even if it is miserable, you must accept less." -then as you move through your ages and stages of life, you learn to accept and think this is the way your life is. With perceived failures, you become the Self-fulfilling prophecy of failure. With successes there is always the fear of the axe falling or it is too good to last. You become the product of these limited, fear based Belief Systems, the B.S. Programs.
From infancy, childhood, teenage years and even through your adult years, inside you may feel different, feel out of place, not connected. You have no idea why. You are affected and influence by Belief Systems that may or may not resonate with your own personal Truth. This causes inner conflicts that may never be resolved. Until you become fully conscious, observing your Self, your life and your relationships, then you can detach and find solutions to your emotional and physical issues.
Solutions only come from non-emotional detached observations and clear resolutions of the issues. Instead of reliving trauma and the stories, you are able to recognize the dysfunctional behavioural patterns learned through the limitations of the programming. Through empowering fact-based perspectives, you will see issues, situations and relationships as they are instead of through the filtered emotional lenses of the negative Belief Systems. The cloudy perceptions prevent you from seeing how you have been affected and influenced by limited Belief Systems. The more conscious you become, as the non-emotional detached observer, the easier it is to determine what is best for you and what isn't.
The truth may be for you that you simply don't resonate with 'their', whoever 'they' are, Belief Systems. "You are suppose to follow in 'their' footsteps." Follow the programs or you won't fit in! You know you don't! If you don't, then the programs say you are judging or wronging your heritage, family, traditions or their Belief Systems. This happens all the time, so you try to fit in. You give up your power resentfully. You try
to fix you and even 'them'. Fixing does not work. Guess what? You can agree to disagree with other's ideas, and not make you or them wrong. You simply choose a different path. You don't have to fight the system. Absolutely you can respect 'their' opinion but not get trapped or pinned down by their limited Belief Systems.
Accept and recognize that many of the Belief Systems you had from the past, are not relevant to your life anymore. Don't hang on to anything that makes you feel less and not good enough. You do not have to be validated by anyone but your Self. Take a giant leap and step into your own power.
Do not confuse power with force. Force is control and manipulation. Force is 'what' forced you to give your Power away to incongruent Belief Systems. Power is connecting to your unlimited creativity. You will only run out of creativity if you force your Self to live in the opinions and limited Belief Systems of others.
Limited Belief Systems are controlling and manipulating you. Limited Belief Systems ask you to be who you are not. Don't care about who you are not. Care about who you are! Staying unconscious
to your own powerfulness is not a viable option anymore. You are getting closer to the 'Why's' by seeing the 'What's' as repeated dysfunctional patterns of the - "What happen to me was the result of not being fully conscious of the truth of my Self." You were taught and conditioned to be unconscious to your own power. Now you don't have to ask the 'Why' I did these dysfunctional behaviours. You begin to ask your Self the questions correctly and getting the correct answers. "Why did I do this or that?" I know 'why' and I don't have to repeat any dysfunctional pattern any more. My life belongs to me.
Be fully present with your Self. You can't change the past. It was one minute ago. You can change the future. It is one second from now. Make all your seconds, from this moment going forward, the significant moments to create for your Self and your life as you feel it. Experience your experiences and learn from them. Get out of your old stories. Your loud silent computer/brain voice only knows the repeated stories. Stories take up too much valuable time. Listen to the voice of your heart. This is the place to start your new life! Don't be afraid to be fully conscious of all that you are and all that you can be by 'being' fully conscious and fully participatory in your life.
Live life loud, lovingly and laugh out loud!
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